In a perfect world, you and your partner would care about each other equally, but there’s always the possibility that one person will love harder, care more, and put in more effort. You probably don’t even realize it, but you’re technically in a relationship by yourself. Here are 11 signs you care more about them than they do about you.
1. YOU DO ALL THE WORK.
When someone gives a damn, they’ll put in the work to show you they care. They’ll plan dates, open up doors, and take you away on a weekend getaway. You won’t have to question whether they care about you or not because it will show through their actions. If your partner has stopped pursuing you and you’re the one who’s breaking your back to keep your relationship alive, I have some bad news for you: they don’t care nearly as much as you do.
2. YOU’RE PUSHING FOR A LABEL.
A person who wants to tie you down and make sure you’re not seeing anyone else will bend over backward to make you their girlfriend. But if you’re the one pushing for a label and they’re not budging, your relationship is unbalanced. There’s no other way to say it—they’ll probably never feel as strongly for you as you do for them.